Not everyone is going to like you.

Not everyone is going to like you. Thats the truth. You can’t make anyone like you. There is no control here, even if you want it, some people are just not meant for you. I know how hard this can be to hear but its true. We are social creatures and rejection can be heartbreaking. But the sooner we begin to accept that not everyone will like you or wish you well, the sooner we can move forward and surround ourselves with people that will like you and accept you.

Many times we deal with people that trigger us, they can even ignite old wounds. The best thing to do is to feel your way through the pain, the anxiety, whatever is lurking in that dark. It gives you a chance to change it, to feel it and accept it. People are lessons just like obstacles and events. That is why we attract the same type of people in our life, until we learn the lesson we are meant to learn to stop the cycle. That is why it’s important to know that not everyone is for you and that is okay. That people will come and they will go and its okay. What is important how you handle it and that you don’t give up on yourself in the process. 

I use to believe that if people didn’t like me or they were fake or didn’t make me a priority that it was something wrong with me. Then it changed and I started to just not keep those people in my life. I started loving on myself hard and shifting my perspective and soon I saw that It had nothing to do with me. Yet there are still moments I’m triggered by people, because of the way my family treated me. Like I said cycles are what keep us attracting the same types of people. Its when we are able to accept it for what it is and feel that old pain and release it. 

So what has my growth shown me? That I’m no longer suppose to be where I am. Surrounded by people that don’t bring anything to the table. I am now able to move forward with my future and my life. I don’t have to keep trying to fit a square peg in a round hole anymore and this makes me happy. This means that it’s not me. I am so grateful for my friend Billy, his help and guidance has been so helpful for me. It’s allowed me to get more in touch with things and learn how to progress forward and work through things like this. So if you read this Billy thanks my friend!!! You are a godsend!! 

Today was a 7.